There’s no denying that dating profile faux pas are guaranteed to turn your carefully curated profile into swipe-left material (and let’s be honest this is the opposite of what anyone wants if in the dating game).
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And a new study by Rainbet has analysed recent survey data to determine the biggest Tinder turn-offs as voted by women – so if you know a man serious about making a good first impression on the apps, make sure they should avoid these common blunders and share this list with them.
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1. No Photos of Yourself
Ranking first as the biggest turn-off for women is men having no photos of themselves on their profile page.
When it comes to dating sites, first impressions matter and a profile without pictures leaves women wondering if you’re even real.
2. Your Bio Is Too Cocky
For most women, confidence is an attractive trait, but arrogance is not.
When writing a bio, men should keep it honest, but also stay humble, listing achievements and preferences can be interesting and attractive but there’s a fine line between self-confidence and being boastful, nobody likes people who reek of self-importance.
3. Unclear pics
Profiles filled with shadowy, blurry, or distant photos can be frustrating and often misconstrued as the guy having something to hide.
Although personality should be one of the key factors when dating, physical attraction plays a huge role in dating apps, so photos that give a clear view of a face are better.
4. Vulgar Pick-Up Lines
No matter the intentions, starting a conversation with a rude or explicit one-liner is a surefire way to get unmatched when it comes to men messaging a woman.
5. Being Mean Under the Guise of Honesty
Backhanded compliments, such as commenting negatively on someone’s photos or personality, won’t win you any points on dating websites and instead make men come across as rude or insincere.
6. Flaunting Wealth
A man boasting about money — whether in his bio or photos, can actually come across as quite insecure and unappealing to women. At the end of the day, women are looking for a connection, not a balance sheet.
7. Only Posting Group Photos
Hiding away in large group photos can come across as a rather insecure move for women. Men can even be setting themselves up for disappointment here, especially if their match finds their friend more attractive. Who’s really got time for Where’s Wally anyway? SWIPE.
8. Poor Grammar and Spelling
I meen this won shud be obvius write?! WRONG.
Poor grammar and spelling can suggest carelessness and lack of effort and can be one of the biggest detractors when trying to find a date on Tinder. Taking the time to proofread messages can make a big difference when trying to secure a match.
9. Over-Messaging or Getting Clingy
Dating can often be a form of escapism for a lot of people and clinginess and over-messaging can feel overwhelming for some. Men should play it cool and give conversations time to breathe.
10. Deceptive or Overly Edited Photos
Let’s be honest, we’ve all seen Catfish before… The solution is simple – just be yourself!
Gabriele Asaro, Head of Research at Rainbet commented on the study: “Creating a standout Tinder profile is all about authenticity and balance.
“This data highlights the importance of being genuine and self-aware online. Clear, authentic photos and a well-written bio showcase confidence without veering into arrogance, and avoiding over-the-top displays of wealth or edited images can help build trust.
“The key takeaway? Women are looking for a connection, not a curated persona. By staying true to yourself and steering clear of these common turn-offs, you’re much more likely to turn swipes into meaningful matches.”