Crushing on a Libra woman? Of course, you are! Libra women are notably the best out of the entire zodiac, and I’m saying this unbiasedly. Libra women’s approach to life goes above and beyond.

Libra women may not fully understand you, but LBR, they really don’t need to. With time, they evolve and adapt, molding themselves around you and creating harmony. Remember, Libra is represented by the scales. They seek peace and balance both inside and outside a relationship.

Ruled by the planet Venus, Libra women are a source of beauty and pleasure. Libra energy is gorgeous! Even in moments of clumsiness and disorganization, they carry themselves with a sense of pride. Libra is a cardinal sign and an air sign: Her seduction manifests itself through breathy displays of ethereal expression. To be loved by a Libra is to be actively blessed by the goddess of love and beauty. Congratulations on being her favourite!

THE LIBRA BASICS

Birthday: September 23 to October 22

Element: Air

Modality: Cardinal

Symbol: The scales

Keywords: Peace, harmony, justice, charm, aesthetic

Love anthem: “Belong To You” by Sabrina Claudio

Famous Libra women: Serena Williams, Lilly Singh, Kim Kardashian, Cardi B, Jordyn Woods, Doja Cat, Gwyneth Paltrow, Halsey

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO KNOW ABOUT LIBRA WOMEN

Here’s the Libra low-down: They aren’t the most complicated of the zodiac signs. In fact, they are pretty on brand. If a Libra woman is your friend or partner, she is of the greatest resources you will ever come across. The more they grow, the easier it is for them to discern how best to be available to you. At their best, they are exploring the world to collect different perspectives, always expanding their understanding so as to empathize with the world around them. Or not…it depends on if you’re dating an evolved Libra or not.

An evolved Libra knows it is not in her best interest to make herself needlessly available to people that stunt her, while an unevolved Libra is a natural bully. Without even realizing it, an unevolved Libra can be condescending, taunting, and rude. Usually, it’s because of unresolved frustrations. Did I mention be careful about getting too close to Libras with entitlement issues?

THE BEST MATCHES FOR A LIBRA WOMAN

For romance, pair a Libra woman with an Aquarius. Libra women pride themselves on being fair within their community. They want to give back; they’re a woman of the people! Aquarius’ ability to hold space and be a community organizer, coupled with Libra’s ability to maintain tranquility, makes them a powerful couple.

Libra’s sister sign, Aries, is another model match—if they are willing to work together. Aries takes the lead, while Libra is great at sharing ideas, fueling Aries’ fire, and extinguishing their flames, when need be.

THE WORST MATCHES FOR A LIBRA WOMAN

A word of advice to Libra women: How about you don’t date a Virgo or Pisces? Of course, I know y’all are going to do whatever you want to do (insert eye roll here). The problem with a Virgo/Libra collaboration is that Virgos are all about serving and precision. Earth sign Virgo’s preoccupation with picking up after earthquakes will naturally disrupt Libra’s method of operation. When Libra is expressing herself, Virgo will be quick to dot overlooked i’s and neglected t’s. That will make the Libra feel insecure or intruded on—not a good combo.

Pisces, on the other hand, can be a great coupling…if Libra enjoys having a chore for a lover. No offensive to Pisces, but Libra will spend so much time being available that eventually her needs will be neglected. Instead of two cute little fishies, Pisces becomes an anchor.

A FIRST DATE WITH A LIBRA WOMAN

A first date with a Libra does not have to be extremely elaborate. When a Libra knows what she needs and has set a plan to achieve it, you might as well respect the game. For a Libra who has the bandwidth to be emotionally available, take her somewhere meaningful. If you want her to be clear on who she’s dating, take her to one of your regular spots, especially if it’s a coffee shop that not that many people know about, a hole in the wall restaurant, or an activist bookstore. If she can’t keep up or shows disinterest, that probably means you two won’t have a soul connection. No soul connection? Then she’s probably not your soul mate, it’s that simple.

During the first date, take the time to focus on her, gaining understanding of her interests and what she’s passionate about. Once your first date is done, you should know if you want to see her again.

ALL ABOUT LIBRA WOMEN

Strong and delicate, Libras are in an ongoing state of dichotomy. They’re continuously adjusting and altering themselves, changing as the wind blows. They are a cardinal sign and like the name suggests, they move at the speed of their own song.

There’s no stopping or pausing a Libra—it’s best not to rush them. They know when it’s best to move or when to slow down. Represented by the scales, this is a sign that truly appreciates equilibrium, and they’re not selfish. In fact, one of Libra’s greatest values is that they really value being fair. Thanks to their patience and willingness to release simple-mindedness, Libra is able to comprehend complex issues and find solutions. They were raised by tension and surrounded by compromise, so people with Libra placements can be loners and particularly sensitive.

Don’t you dare waste a Libra’s time; they have far too many commitments to be taken for granted. Tip: If you’re on a Libra’s mind, it’s because they want you to be there. Why test a Libra when they want to care for you? Remember, Libra is ruled by the planet Venus, which means you will rarely catch them slipping. They’re careful about the way they come off to people. They spend a good amount of time reflecting on their behaviour and figuring out how to best present themselves. They are in a constant state of personal improvement.

It’s important to give Libra freedom and the space to breathe. They’re always on the go, and they need to be surrounded by people who can understand that. Life is short and previous, and Libras are well aware that life offers no refunds, or exchanges. Many people with Libra placements have had to learn that the hard way, which is exactly how they’ve learn to take things lightly. They’re aware of how disruptive and stressful life can be, and they prefer to be calm.

Libras have no issues enjoying the finer things in life: Beautiful songs act as momentary escapes from the disturbances of life; unforgettable meals comfort them through difficult times; and tantalizing scents that remind them of happy moments in her-story. Libra is the perfect addition to any group. Like a diamond, she sparkles when she enters a room. Treat her as a rarity—it’s what she deserves.

Via Cosmopolitan US