The first holiday you spend with someone is a fantastic time to get to know them better, really (really) learn about their likes and dislikes, and see them in a completely different light. It’s almost like you and your partner have moved in together temporarily. And while it may all be fun and games, especially in the initial planning stages of your vacation together, you’ll also come to learn that if you’re not prepared – travelling with your S/O isn’t as #CoupleGoals as you might think. 

Staying together in close quarters and exploring a new country together can be stressful, to put it mildly, it’s not uncommon for you and your boo to get on each other’s nerves. Obviously, everybody wants their vacation to be romantic, carefree, and a chance to bond with their S/O. What transpires, though, when we face difficulties, possibly argue, and ruin the holiday vibes? And how can you avoid that altogether, or diffuse any relationship issues while travelling? Here are some tips below that’ll keep you and your S/O in check so that you can really enjoy your well-earned vacay. 

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Plan and discuss together

This may be an obvious one, but start by planning your trip together. It’s a two-man job. Sit down and discuss your travel goals, interests, and expectations. This collaborative approach will help you both feel involved and invested in the journey. It’s crucial to ensure that you are on the same page before embarking on your adventures.

Compromise and flexibility

When travelling as a couple, compromise is key. You and your partner may have different interests, and it’s essential to find a balance that suits both of you. Be open-minded and willing to try new things, even if they may not be your first choice. Flexibility allows for unexpected adventures and can lead to new shared experiences.

Communicate effectively

Clear and open communication is vital in any relationship, especially when travelling together. Discuss your needs, concerns, and expectations with your partner. Be honest and express yourself calmly, as misunderstandings can quickly arise in unfamiliar environments. Regularly checking in with each other ensures that both parties feel heard and valued throughout the trip.

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Divide responsibilities

To avoid potential conflicts, divide responsibilities during your travels. Assign tasks such as researching accommodations, planning activities, or managing the finances. Sharing the load will not only prevent one person from feeling overwhelmed but also foster a sense of equality and partnership.

Give each other space

Spending every moment together during your trip can be intense. It’s crucial to recognise when you both need personal space and time to recharge. Whether it’s exploring separate areas of a city or engaging in solo activities, giving each other space will contribute to a healthier and more enjoyable travel experience.

Be patient and understanding

Traveling can be stressful, and situations may not always go according to plan. Patience and understanding are essential qualities to cultivate while on the road. If your partner is feeling overwhelmed or frustrated, offer support and reassurance rather than escalating the situation. Remember that you’re a team and can tackle any challenges together.

Embrace the unexpected

Embracing spontaneity and the unexpected is part of the magic of travel. Be open to changing plans, discovering hidden gems, and taking detours. Some of the best memories are often created when you deviate from your original itinerary.

Create intimate moments

Traveling together provides an opportunity to deepen your bond as a couple. Take advantage of romantic settings and create intimate moments. Watch a breathtaking sunset, have a candlelit dinner, or simply enjoy a quiet stroll hand in hand. These special moments will enhance your travel experience and strengthen your connection.

Budget and financial planning

Money matters can sometimes be a source of tension. Before you travel, discuss your budget and financial expectations. Decide on how expenses will be shared and allocate funds accordingly. By being transparent and organised, you can avoid potential conflicts and focus on enjoying your journey.

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Remember to compartmentalise

It’s important to remember that travelling as a couple is different from everyday life. While it’s natural to experience occasional disagreements, try not to let them overshadow your trip. Compartmentalise any issues and focus on the positives, cherishing the time you have together in a new and exciting environment.

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