It hasn’t been long since Love is Blind season 3‘s ‘After the Altar’ aired and we were given updates on the pod couples. While Alexa and Brennon are discussing starting a family, the other singles, like bombshell Raven Ross, gave us some intel on where they’re at now in their lives.

TBH, Love is Blind season 3 was a ~wild~ ride, couples got to the altar and got rejected, other duos are still together but living in separate houses (??), and our fave pilates queen Raven Ross has had some *intense* relationships since the viral Netflix show aired.

Raven Ross and Nigerian contestant Sikiru ‘SK’ Alagbada fell in love in the pods on Love is Blind season 3, and while they made it to the altar, SK left Raven at the altar saying he was worried about their distance and his future for his career.

Throughout the LIB reunion and ‘After the Altar’ the couple have been on and off with SK proposing *again* to Raven, and rumours of his infidelity to the pilates instructor. Now, Raven has released a podcast with Nick Viall on an episode of The Viall Files, revealing what happened during their relationship.

Raven Ross

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Scroll down to find out what Raven Ross from Love is Blind season 3 revealed about her relationship with SK…

How Raven found out SK was cheating:

“I found out with everyone else on TikTok… I watched it a few times. She had some pictures and messages on there. I confirmed it was some of the same pictures he had sent me, so I knew it was real.”

Raven shares when SK finally fessed up:

“One night, it had been a very long and emotional day for both of us… we were in bed just talking and he was like ‘I have to tell you something,’… I sat up and I was like, ‘just say it.’ And he was like, ‘I took her to Cabo… I told you I was at school, but I wasn’t at school I was in Cabo with her on a couples trip.’ And my heart just sank… That was the first time I started using the words, ‘we’re about to be done.’”

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What Raven has to say when people ask why she didn’t end it with SK earlier:

“What you guys saw on TV was the person I felt I was with. Someone who’s so intelligent and kind and attentive to me and my best friend. [We were] in love… [I kept] telling myself, ‘well thats the person that I’m with.’”

Raven says SK was manipulating and gaslighting her:

“While we were going through all of this there was so much manipulation and gaslighting. He really was just worried about saving his career and his face. He wanted to get lawyers involved to make people take these claims away so it wouldn’t look bad for him… [He wanted me to say] that we weren’t dating the whole time… It was very much ‘operation keep Raven quiet from saying the truth.’”

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Watch the full episode of Nick Viall’s podcast with Raven Ross on The Viall Files here.